The title, ‘Helping Hands’, might tempt you to believe that we are talking about some charity organization or movement aimed at the have-nots of our society benefitting from kind acts of the have’s. Let me set the record straight by stating, right at the outset, that we are not talking about any charitable initiatives here but alluding to a corporate strategy of Machiavellian proportions.
You see them all over the office – the kind hearted colleagues who are always willing to give you a hand. They will help move your desk, fetch you a cup of coffee, proof read your report, debug your code and even attend meetings in place of you! It all looks like a good natured party of sorts till the seasoned veterans enter the fray.
At the individual level, the ready-to-serve helper seems to materialize out of thin air whenever you are struggling with an impossible task or assignment.
“Hi buddy, I will help you put together the Sales Forecast – I just finished helping Amy with hers”
“I see that you are struggling with your budgets allocation. It is truly a beast unless you know the tricks to make the numbers balance. I can give you a hand”
“I just couldn’t help overhearing your grouchy manager rudely telling you to finish reviewing those contracts by this evening. What an insensitive human being, piling things on top of what you already have to deal with. Let us work on it together”
Sound familiar? While on the surface such camaraderie looks like a godsend to a battered soul, taking up such offers of unsolicited help quickly turns out to be a disaster because the ‘helper’ has no clue of the task involved (notwithstanding tall claims to the contrary) and you end up undoing their ‘help’ for many hours. And, to top it all, everyone in the office is made aware of how much assistance you received from the Good Samaritan!
At the higher echelons of management, this concept of offering help is used in a structured way to hog the limelight and build careers. Let us take a look at a meeting where the CEO is assigning an initiative to improve customer service to the Head of Customer Service (Stacy). A savvy manager from Marketing (Tom) could hijack the situation as follows:
CEO: So, Stacy ……. Let us get the show on the road. Contact all customers and tell them about our new initiatives and focus.
Stacy: OK, I will look into it and come up with ……..
Tom: Hi Stacy and others, I would love to help. You know, we had started something very similar in our own department and ……
Stacy (confused and surprised): Oh, but Tom, I am not aware that you guys were working on this.
Tom: I was referring to the research study undertaken by the Product Management group five years ago. We were helping them out but the project was canned after a few days.
Stacy: Oh, I see….
Tom: But, don’t worry, Stacy, we have started compiling a great database of all customers, by region, by market segment and a host of other factors.
Stacy (suspicious and skeptical): Yeah, I have seen that list. It is pretty outdated. I am not sure……
CEO: Stacy, this is a big initiative. Take all the help you can. Tom, thanks for your offer. Get right on it.
Tom: Any time, Sir.
Stacy (collapsing into her chair): Whatever……